Lately since the opening of 50 shades of Grey in the cinemas I have been on a war path of being very anti 50 and promoting of how abusive and reckless the male protagonist Christian Grey is to his submissive Ana Steele. Anyone who is in the BDSM lifestyle knows its all about being safe, sane and consensual- it is not one sided at all!
Unfortunately one of my dear friends on Second Life who works in an adult store overheard the wannabe Dominants who believe in that D/s relationship it is all about themselves and giving pain to their submissive. I found this on Facebook and went to the tumblr and I think those getting into it should read and learn :)
Those who are beginners and just have a taste for kinky sex and not realising that you can be in a D/s relationship and not have sex involved at all like to think they are suddenly experts in the lifestyle. Please stop, research and understand- don’t be like the author!
Well considering it’s still Valentines Day in half of the planet, I’ve decided to make it an appropriate time to officially introduce the readers and followers of my blog to my Sir, my future hubby :P and my other half!
His name is Aum Parx on Second Life and we officially been together for 5 months- anniversary fell upon Freaky Friday 13th Feb :O He is British, plays guitar, a gamer and social butterfly who loves his drinking! He is also into Star Wars, a foodie and zombie killing like yours truly :3
For those who read my entire blog including side panels would have already seen his name on the left side but ta-daa for the rest of you! Here he is :D
** Bloated Birthday Belly, aiya! **
I did a fashion tile on my birthday but other than that I was mostly off my computer and spending time outside, despite the fact the rest of my family and best friend Mei had work during the day I still got all of them with me for my dinner and dessert in the evening. I mean during the day was still fabulous because dad treated me out to lunch and I did a little bit of clothes shopping- got myself a top to wear at night and a dress for Hawaii in May.
My younger sister still managed to come to the restaurant despite having final check at her work, mum managed to break away from her neverending work load, Mei came to my house still in her work gear and my sister’s boyfriend travelled direct to the restaurant after working in the city. I cannot say how much appreciate all five of them joining me in my birthday celebrations on the 10th, it wouldn’t be the same without them.
My highlight though of the birthday was when I got a rasberry cookie cake from Mrs Fields by my own bestie in the United States, Katie! She collaborated with mum over facebook to arrange a sweet present for me and gosh I was so surprised! Presents wise my sister and her boyfriend got me Sailor Moon on blu ray its arriving end of this month :D And Mei got me more Pandora charms for my collection- I now have a Chinese go lucky cat and a geisha doll.
After everyone went to bed in the later hours and I was upstairs I logged onto Second Life and went to Ambrosia where my big sister Lexy was djing, I was joined by my long time friend from IMVU Damien and we hung out until he had to leave for reality. She even played me a birthday song so it was good ending to my birthday <3 Plus all those messages on my SL and main facebooks, holy moly! You don’t realise how much people pay attention to what you post until your bday :P